Bond~

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

I've always wondered how to interpret the meaning of "bond".

Does it have the same meaning as friendship?

No, it think it's meaning is more than that.

In malay, i'd like to call "bond" as "ukhuwwah".

What is ukhuwwah exactly?

From my life experiences, i interpret ukhuwwah as something much much more than juz simple friendship. I've never had any true real bond with anyone excluding my family members of course but other than family, i've never really had anyone to make true bond with. Although, i do have several people who i have made bonds with but it's not true real perfect bond but my bonds with them are almost perfect but hey, humans are complicated beings. There are always flaws and inconveniences.

When u have ukhuwwah with someone,
you will always be together in times of happiness and hardships,
you don't have to say anything if u want something or need something,
that person will thoughtfully give u ur needs
and make u happy and feel at ease as much as they could.
You are more important to that person than his/her family, wealth and life!
Meaning u will always have someone to have your back.
And of course there are no "berkira punya" attitude.
I mean, people! why do u have to "berkira"? huh?
I really don't get it!
Can't u like "niat sedekah je"
Dpt jugak pahala ui~
And ur lame excuse as being "adil" is not acceptable for me.
i don't think u are being "adil"...
i think it's just that u are stingy.

See, always and always i have very good friendship with lots n lots of people...
they are very good and nice in many ways but,
they have the annoying and irritating attitude of "berkira'.

And fyi, i've never been to boarding school,
so my first encounter with such people was when i first lived in AsMARA.

People are people.
Muslims?
Muslims should be muslims too!

"Love ur brothers(for brothers) and love ur sisters(for sisters) in Islam more than u love urself."

Give and give without expecting any returns.
When u feel tired of juz giving and giving but in the end, it looks as if ur givings are not appreciated or acknowledged of...

Well, let me tell u something, wut u do to people sometimes dun give immediate effect.
It does not have rapid onset u see.
It haS a very long latent period of incubation.
Sometimes, people do remember ur kindness, it's juz that they don't voice it out.
Without realising it, u actually have a special place in their hearts.

Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, maybe not next year,
BUT DEFINITELY
One day...
Those that u have touched with ur givings,
will return back to u ur kindness in ways u could never imagine of.

And i'm writing this out of experience,
not juz mere simple writing.

"Give as much as u can, be less selfish, be more considerate."

i'm also a complicated imperfect human being.

i try my mightiest to be a good friend and give as much as i can.

i hope u will join me in this attempt.

Let's all be true muslims.

It's not easy to achieve such desire to be true muslims
where there are a lot of things u have to and u have to not to do
but at least each and everyday, try, no,
u must improve urself to be a better person, a better muslim.

Ok, ok..i'm already drowsy, so time to wrap up:




"Raya Haji da dkt, cuti da dekat,so kalu ada org buat open house, pastu jemput kte personally dtg uma dye mkn, kna pegi taw! Unless ada sbb musabab yg munasabah...sbb memenuhi jemputan seorg teman adalah salah satu drpd hak2 ukhuwwah. Penuhilah hak kwn2 kte dlm bershbt andai kte juga mahu hak2 kte sbg shbt dipenuhi."

Sekian, Selamat Studi Sume, Wassalam.

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Until next time~